‘Why Did I Get Married Again?’ Reminds Us That The Most Relatable Rom-Com Isn’t About Relationship Goals [REVIEW]

Tyler Perry’s Why Did I Get Married Again? brings the beloved friend group back together, nineteen years after the original Why Did I Get Married? (2007) and sixteen years after its 2010 sequel, for a destination wedding in Italy. Marcus (Michael Jai White) and Angela’s (Tasha Smith) daughter Jasmine (Armani Greer) is marrying Wesley (Everett Osborne), the son of Roselyn (Taraji P. Henson), a successful businesswoman who’s new to the franchise but a longtime member of the friend group. Rounding out the returning cast are Tyler Perry as Terry, Jill Scott as Sheila, Richard T. Jones as Mike, Sharon Leal as Diane, and Lamman Rucker as Troy, alongside younger cast members including Da’Vinchi, Laya DeLeon Hayes, Jaden Michael, Charles L. Smith II, Derrick A. King, and Sydney Winbush.

Overall, it’s a cool watch, genuinely enjoyable, and honestly I liked this one more than the second film, which never fully clicked for me.

Being part of this franchise means you already love these characters, so it’s satisfying just meeting them again in a new stage of life. The wrinkle is the kids. We’re introduced to a whole younger generation who were only ever mentioned in passing before, and it shows. I legitimately had to pull up a cast guide to keep track of who was who. Who is Jasmine? Who’s Marcus Jr., also known as MJ? Y’all needed name tags. It’s not that the storyline isn’t compelling, since what the kids get into is genuinely reminiscent of the drama from the first film. It’s just that the emotional investment in the adults doesn’t automatically transfer to the next generation.

My only real critique, and it’s one I have with a lot of movies and TV right now, is that the film leans into “paint by numbers” writing, explaining what’s about to happen and then simply doing it. The opening stretch of the movie is guilty of this, using the name tags and reunion small talk to basically hand the audience a resume for each character instead of letting us discover who they are through the story. It’s the one thing I’d have changed.

Everything else works. The cast chemistry is excellent, especially between Taraji P. Henson and the returning group. She slots into the friendship without ever trying to replace Janet Jackson’s character from the original, which was a smart choice. And as always with Tyler Perry, the writing itself may not be prestige-level, but his concepts are immaculate. His intentions behind these stories always come through, even when the path to the message gets a little messy along the way.

What struck me most this time is something I hadn’t fully appreciated across the earlier films: the whole point of this franchise has never been that marriage is perfect. It’s that we’re not perfect, but we figure it out anyway, and we’re still here at the end of the day. In an era where social media has turned “relationship goals” into a highlight reel, there’s something genuinely relatable about a franchise that’s built on the opposite idea, that nobody’s perfect, everybody’s a hot mess, and the real relationship goals are the ones where you know a couple has actually been through something and come out the other side together.

On top of that, the cast simply doesn’t look sixteen-plus years older, until a flashback scene puts the “now” cast next to their younger selves side by side, and it’s a genuinely funny gut-punch of “oh, y’all did age.”

Bottom line: I recommend it. It’s a feel-good watch with real rewatchability, which I think is an underrated metric for judging a movie, not just “is this great cinema,” but “would I watch this again.” This one scores high on that front. I’d give it an 8 out of 10 on the celebration scale.

Have you seen Why Did I Get Married Again? And where does it rank for you, first, second, or third in the franchise? Let me know in the comments.

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